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How to Be An Ally in the Workplace

Written by Tim Davisson | Jun 20, 2023 10:00:00 AM

Earlier this month, I shared some thoughts on How to Show Pride in June and Be an Ally All Year Long, and the response has been fantastic. I thought I would follow up with some tips focusing specifically on creating a more inclusive and welcoming workplace for your LGBTQ+ coworkers and team members. 

Being an ally means actively supporting and advocating for the rights and well-being of LGBTQ+ individuals, creating a workplace where everyone feels respected and valued. While the journey to becoming an effective ally may seem daunting, it is a path worth embarking on. By educating ourselves, challenging biases, and promoting inclusive policies, we can contribute to a more equitable and harmonious workplace. To that end, here are ten essential strategies to be an ally in the workplace and help create an environment where everyone can thrive.

1. Educate Yourself

Take the initiative to educate yourself about LGBTQ+ issues, terminology, and experiences. Read books, articles, and online resources to gain a better understanding of the challenges faced by the LGBTQ+ community.

2. Use Inclusive Language

Be mindful of your language and avoid making assumptions about someone’s gender identity or sexual orientation. Use gender-neutral language whenever possible and respect individuals’ preferred pronouns.

3. Respect Privacy and Confidentiality

It’s crucial to respect people’s privacy and confidentiality. Do not disclose someone’s sexual orientation or gender identity without their consent. Let individuals share their own personal information when they feel comfortable doing so.

4. Be Supportive

Offer support and understanding to your LGBTQ+ colleagues. Be approachable and create a safe space where they can discuss any concerns or challenges they might be facing. Be open to listening and learning from their experiences.

5. Challenge Homophobic and Transphobic Behavior

If you witness homophobic or transphobic behavior, speak up and address it. Use your privilege as an ally to advocate for equality and fairness. Engage in constructive conversations to raise awareness and promote a more inclusive workplace.

6. Use Inclusive Policies

Encourage your organization to adopt inclusive policies and practices that support LGBTQ+ employees. This can include non-discrimination policies, gender-neutral restrooms, and healthcare coverage that includes gender-affirming treatments.

7. Attend LGBTQ+ Events and Training

Participate in LGBTQ+ events, workshops, and training sessions to expand your knowledge and understanding. This shows your commitment to being an ally and creates opportunities to network and build relationships with LGBTQ+ colleagues.

8. Amplify LGBTQ+ Voices

Use your platform and influence to amplify the voices and accomplishments of LGBTQ+ individuals. Share their stories, promote their work, and celebrate their contributions to the workplace.

9. Respect Diversity Within the LGBTQ+ Community

Remember that the LGBTQ+ community is diverse, with different identities and experiences. Be mindful of not making assumptions or generalizations about individuals based on their sexual orientation or gender identity. Treat each person as an individual and respect their unique experiences.

10. Be Open to Feedback

Recognize that being an ally is an ongoing process of learning and growth. Be open to feedback from LGBTQ+ colleagues and be willing to make changes to your behavior or understanding. Use feedback as an opportunity for personal development and improvement.

Being an ally in the workplace is not a one-time action but a lifelong commitment to fostering inclusivity and acceptance. By implementing the strategies discussed in this article, such as educating ourselves, using inclusive language, and amplifying LGBTQ+ voices, we can actively contribute to creating a workplace where everyone feels safe, valued, and respected. 

Remember that being an ally is an ongoing process of growth and learning. Embrace the opportunity to challenge your own biases, engage in open dialogue, and make positive changes. Together, we can build a workplace that celebrates diversity, empowers LGBTQ+ individuals, and paves the way for a more inclusive future.